We’ve all been there — swiping left for hours on end without a decent match in sight, thinking “How the hell did I get here?” Don’t be too hard on yourself. After all, dating in Hong Kong is notoriously difficult — and that’s before adding apps to the mix. Nevertheless, it seems that algorithmic connection is here to stay, because God knows you’re not going to have that 90s-era meet-cute of your dreams. But before you enlist to the warzone that is online dating, here are our honest thoughts on seven of the most popular dating apps in Hong Kong.

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Tinder — Nightmarecore

I’ll hold my hands up here and say I’m a hypocrite, because I actually met my long-term partner on Tinder in Hong Kong. But a) that was during the pandemic (things have changed) and b) queer and straight Tinder are two different worlds. From unsolicited dick pics to scammers, creeps and a seemingly endless stream of emotionally unavailable finance bros, straight Hong Kong Tinder can feel like it’s where romance goes to die. Unless you’re looking for a one-night stand with a man who will spend the whole night talking about himself, take our advice and don’t download this app.

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Coffee Meets Bagel — The innocent one

This app is actually pretty cute, and if you’re looking for something serious it’s a welcome respite from Tinder. Essentially everyone on here is seeking legitimate connections and relationships, so you don’t have to worry so much about ghosters. The problem with Coffee Meets Bagel is that there aren’t nearly the quantity of users as other apps, which can be difficult if you’re used to swiping past hundreds of faces. Also, because Coffee Meets Bagel is known to be more popular locally, some men join specifically to connect with Asian women, which can be a little yikes (no one wants to be fetishised).

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Bumble — You’ll download it at some point

There’s a lot of good things about this app, but that hasn’t stopped it from leaving my single friends screaming into a pillow. First off, practically all of Hong Kong has a Bumble profile, so be prepared to bump into friends, exes, mutuals and colleagues (congrats, you now know that Michael from accounting is ethically nonmonogamous). As for the whole prompt thing, this really does give you an insight into someone’s personality beyond their pictures. The down side? It’s actually easier to get the ick from someone’s self-described insightfulness than from an unflattering selfie.

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Feeld — If you’re into it, you’re into it

If you’re looking for a serious, committed, monogamous relationship, this may not be the app for you. But if you’re looking to explore your sexuality openly and intimately, Feeld really does cater to every desire. It’s also a solid resource if you’re already in a relationship and looking for a third (or another couple), and it’s one of the most queer- and trans-friendly dating apps in Hong Kong. Just be careful about who you open up to, because while all the apps have some bots and scammers, this one is rife with both.

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Hinge — RIP Hinge Hong Kong

Hinge took “designed to be deleted” a little too far, because you can’t actually use it in Hong Kong. However, it does work if you’ve downloaded it outside the city — meaning the type of person to use it in Hong Kong has likely not been here long (or is only here temporarily). There’s also a kind of arrogant vibe on Hinge, with the not-so-subtle connotation that you’re “too good” for other apps.

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Grindr — Stay safe out there

No real introduction required for this one, considering it’s the world’s most popular dating app for the queers and the gays. But while Grindr markets itself as open to trans and nonbinary queer people, users’ lived experiences say otherwise. Over the years, we’ve heard major complaints about pretty much every bigotry in the book — transphobia, racism, body-shaming, you name it (not to mention the horror stories about revenge porn). That said, it is and forever will be the go-to app for queer men.

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Hey Mandi — Good concept, depressing execution

In theory, this app is a great idea: you can match and start conversations with other users before seeing what they look like. That’s right, there isn’t any opportunity to judge someone’s looks before swiping, or for profile pictures to get in the way of a solid connection. Sadly, though, this has made it a little too easy for people who are already in relationships to set up a profile without anyone knowing. Yikes.

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Final Thoughts

While dating in Hong Kong is difficult no matter what, that doesn’t stop people from entering into new relationships every day — so don’t lose hope. These are honest reviews of the apps and their downsides from our personal experiences, but there’s no harm in setting up a profile and trying it out for yourself. If you’ve been convinced to stay off the apps, though, check out our regularly updated monthly event listings in Hong Kong for a chance to meet someone IRL for a change.

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Love it or loathe it, our city pulls out the stops year after year to mark the day of love. While you may still be recovering from trying to secure your Chinese New Year reservation, there are plenty of couples pining to dine out this year, so it’s best to book in early! Not sure what’s on offer this Valentine’s Day in Hong Kong? Keep reading to discover the best restaurants and speciality menus, from romantic dinners and family-friendly buffets to pet-friendly venues.

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Té Bo: Unpretentious fusion fine dining

Want to treat your boo to an exquisite meal without the fuss of fine dining? Té Bo fits the bill. Its six-course set menu starts out with light snacks: buñuelos and cured mackerel, crispy cheesy potatoes with pickled daikon and beef tartare topped with caviar. Then come three appetisers, including two opulent seafood dishes — cured king salmon with smoked stracciatella and caviar to start, followed by langoustines with sea urchin and shiso —  and a blue prawn ravioli. Don’t fill up, though, because for the main courses, you’ll be served Patagonian toothfish with scallop mousse and white asparagus, followed by Té Bo’s signature Wagyu M9+ Striploin served with truffle pommes purée and bone marrow. For dessert, dive into Japanese winter strawberries, macadamia chantilly, mochi and coconut marshmallow

When: 13 to 15 February, 2025
Where: Té Bo, 1800 Social, Two Taikoo Place, 979 King’s Road, Quarry Bay, Hong Kong — book here
How much: $1,988 per person for six courses (add four- or six-glass French wine pairing for $688 or $1,188, respectively)

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Nocino: A Swiss-Italian getaway

Treat your lover to a trip to the alps — well, sort of. Nocino’s “Take Me to Ticino Grotto” Valentine’s dinner sharing menu kicks things off with the ultimate cheese pull — Swiss gruyere fried cheese fondue (Malakoff) — paired with house-made rosemary focaccia. Then, dive into handmade pasta like wagyu beef shin pappardelle or the rich brown crab cacio e pepe casarecce. The star of the evening? A luxurious 12-hour red wine-braised wagyu osso bucco milanese. Finish on a sweet note with Odette’s tiramisu, perfectly paired with a glass of Nocino.

When: 14 February, 2025
Where: Nocino, 92E, Tung Lo Wan Road, Tai Hang, Hong Kong — book here
How much: $598 per person for five courses (add Ticino Merlot wine pairing for $300)

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BEDU: Instagrammable Middle Eastern dinner

If your partner has been dying to try the viral Dubai chocolate — or to finally get some good couple’s pictures — this one’s for you. The sharing menu boasts classic Middle Eastern inspired dishes like a mezze platter (beetroot hummus with lamb baharat, radicchio salad and pita), salmon crudo, pan-seared red salmon and a rack of lamb (served with pomegranate sauce, green hummus and beetroot “caviar”), but the dessert is the star of the show. Enter the house-made Golden Dubai Chocolate, a heart-shaped textural delight made with crispy Kataifi, pistachio, tahini, vanilla and chocolate. If that’s not enough romance for you, couples will also receive a keepsake photo, as well a charming table-side reading of verses from 14th-century Persian poet Hafez.

When: 14 February, 2025
Where: BEDU, 40 Gough Street, Central, Hong Kong — book here
How much:$695 per person for five shared courses

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Dim Sum Library: Bite-sized love

For those that like Westernised yum cha and pretty decor, Dim Sum Library is always a good idea. This V-Day, its serving up romance with a four-course feast of Cantonese favourites, each dish symbolising love and good fortune. Start with a dim sum trio of scallop and beetroot dumplings, a crispy cod roll with Yunnan termite mushroom and seared foie gras with osmanthus-smoked coddled egg. A double-boiled chicken soup with fish maw, conch and porcini mushroom brings prosperity, while mains like wok-tossed A4 Wagyu beef with wasabi garlic sauce and foie gras Wagyu fried rice deliver bold, indulgent flavours. End on a sweet note with a baked mango and lotus root puff. Plus, toast the occasion with “Him & Her” cocktails — extra points if you swap.

When: 13 February to 14 February, 2025
Where: Dim Sum Library, Shop 124, Level 1 Pacific Place, Admiralty, Hong Kong — book here
How much:$999 per couple for four shared courses

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The Place: Family-friendly seafood buffet

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be all lingerie and rose petals — it’s also an opportunity to spend time with your family and celebrate love. Cordis hotel in Mong Kok’s upscale buffet restaurant, The Place, is hosting a dinnertime buffet with a a diverse array of seafood delicacies (including steamed fresh lobster, oysters and seasonal sashimi) as well as pan-fried foie gras, bouillabaisse and roasted US ribeye, among other dishes. There will also be Valentine’s Day-inspired desserts, such as pistachio strawberry mousse cake, rose lychee white chocolate tart and pistachio mochi tart, along with unlimited soft drinks, selected beers and house wines.

Sassy Tip: Book before 8 February, 2025, for 15% off!

When: 14 February, 2025
Where: The Place, Level L, Cordis, 555 Shanghai Street, Mong Kok, Kowloon, Hong Kong — book here
How much: $898 per adult, $698 per senior and $598 per child

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Cristal Room: Opulent French gastronomy

The one-Michelin-starred Cristal Room needs no introduction, but in case you haven’t heard, last year it received the Best Design Award by SCMP Top Tables and a Prix Versailles distinction as one of the top 16 most beautiful restaurants. This Valentine’s Day, Cristal Room will be graced by the return of Anne-Sophie Pic — the most-decorated Michelin-starred female chef in the world! — for a special eight-course menu, featuring dishes like tomato tartelette, myriad beetroot and Brittany lobster. For a cool $18,880, guests can also upgrade to a private dining room, where they’ll be greeted by complimentary fresh roses, a signed copy of Chef Pic’s latest book and specially engraved Baccarat Harcourt 1841 Love Glasses.

When: 14 February, 2025
Where: Cristal Room, 44/F, Gloucester Tower, Landmark, Central, Hong Kong — book here
How much:$4,880 per person for eight courses

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Qué Pasa Tapas y Vino: Spanish feast with live entertainment

Spice up Valentine’s Day with a fiery Spanish feast and live flamenco show. The evening kicks off with a complimentary glass of sparkling cava, followed by a spread of indulgent sharing tapas — including steak tartare on toast with capers, white asparagus with garlic aioli and herring caviar, and Spanish cured ham. The meal continues with salmon ceviche in cucumber water, followed by two mains: grilled striploin with foie gras butter and grilled half lobster with juicy rice, accompanied by crispy patatas with truffle aioli. End the evening with a decadent trio of chocolate desserts while the flamenco performance takes centre stage.

When: 14 February, 2025
Where: Qué Pasa Tapas y Vino, G/F, 98 Tung Lo Wan Road, Tai Hang, Hong Kong — book here
How much:$888 per couple for five courses and two glasses of Spanish cava

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Madame Fu: Decorative Chinese cuisine

Considering that its venue is one of the most picturesque in Hong Kong, it’s no surprise that Madame Fu is rolling out all the stops for Valentine’s Day. The sharing menu includes seven courses, starting with a modernised pork knuckles & ginger stew jelly, scallops and cauliflower fungus marinated in truffle and roasted duck salad. For the mains, indulge in a Sichuan-spiced angus beef ribeye with maitake mushrooms and handmade dumplings filled with porcini mushrooms. End the meal with a homemade raspberry ganache and tangy rose jam, simmered with Spanish rose petals and shaped into two swans.

When: 13 to 15 February, 2025
Where: Madame Fu, 3/F, Barrack Block, Tai Kwun, No. 10 Hollywood Road, Central, Hong Kong — book here
How much:$1,780 per couple for seven shared courses and two glasses of sparkling rosé (upgrade to a bottle for $520)

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District 8: Pet-friendly and affordable

Want to bring your best furry friend along on your date night? Head to District 8! A thoughtfully curated menu features indulgent options like smoked duck breast, pork cheek pappardelle, or the luxurious O’Connor Angus ribeye with Yorkshire pudding. Vegetarian options like burrata tartare and mushroom pie are also on offer, alongside decadent desserts like Paris Brest or cheesecake with blueberry jam. With pet-friendly outdoor seating and special Valentine’s treats for furry companions (for an additional $150), it’s the perfect spot for a unique romantic evening — four-legged friends included!

When: 14 February, 2025
Where: District 8, R0009, Civic Square, Rooftop Elements Shopping Centre, 1 Austin Road West, West Kowloon, Hong Kong — book here
How much:$420 per person for two courses; $460 per person for three courses

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La Petit Maison: A Mediterranean love affair

For European elegance and charm, head to La Petit Maison’s romantic Côte d’Azur-inspired venue. Begin the meal with a choice of starters — oysters with smoked Tabasco and crispy quinoa, foie gras terrine, tuna tartare or burrata with cherry tomatoes and basil. A crab risotto follows, designed for sharing. For mains, choose from French classics such as duck confit with orange and endive, grilled Sagabuta pork, a hearty 300g ribeye steak or whole sea bream baked with Provençal herbs and lemon. Sides include broccolini with chilli and ginger or green beans sauteed in garlic oil. End the evening with the luxurious Tarte Tropézienne à La Bergamote, a citrus-infused creation featuring velvety cream and zesty notes of bergamot and grapefruit.

When: 13 February to 16 February, 2025
Where: La Petit Maison, H Queen’s, 23-29 Stanley Street, Central, Hong Kong — book here
How much:$988 per person for four courses

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Morton’s The Steakhouse: A Carnivore’s dream

This Valentine’s Day, Morton’s is serving up steak, seafood and sweetness. The three-course set menu includes indulgent dishes like pan-seared foie gras, 19-oz chateaubriand for two, seven-oz American Wagyu filet mignon with crab meat, 16-oz centre-cut prime ribeye or whole baked Maine lobster, paired with delicious sides like truffle fries and cream corn. End the night with a decadent, two-person dessert platter featuring heart-shaped cheesecake and chocolate-dipped strawberries, all while sipping on their vibrant Love Bird cocktail (available from 7 – 16 February).

When: 14 February, 2025
Where: Morton’s The Steakhouse,The Sheraton Hotel Hong Kong, 4/F, 20 Nathan Road, Kowloon, Hong Kong — book here
How much:$1,488 per couple for three courses

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Brut!: Intimate and curated French fusion menu

Tucked away in a dimly lit, stripped-back setting and offering one of the most unique wine selections in Hong Kong, Brut! is known for being a classic date night spot. The six-course Valentine’s Day set menu starts out with tahini scallop and cauliflower za’atar puree, yellow clams with vermouth marinade, and a foie gras and eel terrine paired with sake jelly. Main courses include monkfish roulade with spelt and curry vichyssoise, followed by roasted duck breast served with radicchio and sweet mulberries. The meal concludes with an innovative spin on cornbread — in this case accompanied by whipped white chocolate and caviar.

When: 14 February, 2025
Where: Brut!, Shop C, 1 Second Street, Sai Ying Pun, Hong Kong — book here
How much:$780 per person for six courses (add three- or five-glass wine pairing for $380 or $580, respectively)

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AIRSIDE Café: Casual yet romantic European cuisine

This five-course tasting menu begins with sharing plates of foie gras ganache with cherry jelly, burrata with seasonal fruit and a snow crab tartare with guacamole, tomato and tofu skin. Guests can select their mains — options include cod fish with lentils, grapes, spinach purée and caviar sauce; Wagyu Bavette with raspberry beetroot purée, chimichurri, Swiss chard and coffee oil; or (for an additional $200) a grilled whole lobster with lemon butter and ikura. The meal concludes with popcorn ice cream, served with fig, candied fruit and Okinawa brown sugar, plus two complimentary macarons from AIRSIDE Patisserie.

When: 14 February, 2025
Where: AIRSIDE Cafe, Shop 322 & 323, AIRSIDE, 2 Concorde Road, Kai Tak, Kowloon, Hong Kong — book here
How much: $780 per person for five courses

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Looking for gift ideas that will make your Valentine’s day? Whether you’re looking to spoil your romantic partner, help pick out a present for a loved one or want to treat your best galentines (or maybe you’re shopping for yourself, we won’t judge!), you’ve come to the right place. From lovely candle holders and pretty palettes to fashionable fits, dazzling jewellery and sweet treats, here are 20+ Valentine’s Day gift ideas that we’re confident your S.O. will love.

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Grace & Favour HK, Valentine’s Day Roses, From $1,680

Indulge in the ultimate expression of love this Valentine’s Day with the exquisite selection from award-winning florist Grace & Favour HK of premium Ecuadorian rose bouquets and flower boxes, darling Jellycat plushies and more! Elevate your romantic gesture with a meticulous curation of premium flowers, sourced directly from esteemed partner farms around the globe. Each bloom is artfully arranged by internationally certified florists, and you can choose the full experience by picking up in-stores or relishing the convenience of seamless delivery straight to your door.

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Godiva, Chocolate Heart-Shaped Gift Box, $499

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Laura Mercier, Lucky In Love Blush Colour Infusion, $310

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Charles & Keith, Philomena Quilted Heart Crossbody Bag, $469

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Jo Malone, Taif Rose Cologne Intense, $1,215

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Little Ritual.s, Crystal Set + Breathwork Session For Two, $500

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Niin, Eska Glacier Duo Earrings, $1,152

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Crewkies, Red Velvet Cookie Cake, $350

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Loveramics, Willow Love Story Plate Set Of 4, $399

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Ritz-Carlton, Urban Escape Package For Two, $4,200

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Jellycat, Amuseables Heart Bag, $365

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Natasha Denona, Retro Eyeshadow Palette, $399

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Zara, Draped Midi Dress, $469

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Gift Something, Heartful Care Hamper, $989

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RockRush, Eternity Bands, From $759

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Roksaan, Customisable Valentine’s Day Card, From $59

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GLOWGEAR, THE GROBOUNCE 4-in-1 Hair Volumizer, $1,315

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Vista, Valentine’s Day Dinner, $1,388 per person

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Guerlain’s Muguet, Exceptional Rendezvous Perfume, $6,480

Lovense, Lush 2 Egg Vibrator, $938

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LUSH, Rose Gift Set, $240

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Chopard, Happy Hearts 18-karat rose gold, mother-of-pearl and diamond necklace, $61,000

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Better Than Flowers, The Surprise Box, From $59

Urban Outfitters, Heart Handle Puffy Ceramic Mug, $127

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We’re Not Really Strangers, Couples Edition Card Game, USD$20

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Charmaine Studios, Heart Envelopes, $148

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Anthropologie, Cut Glass Candle Holder, From $221

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Intimissimi, Autumn Blossom Viscose Satin Kimono, $629

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ManMoMedia, “Hong Kong In 100 Photos” Coffee Table Book, $360

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Kayali, Eden Juicy Apple Eau De Parfum, $1,130

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If you still haven’t found what you’re looking for, head to our main gift guide landing page.

Editor’s Note: All listed prices were correct at the time of publication.

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The holidays are here, and while you’re busy checking off everyone else’s wish lists, don’t forget to treat yourself — or your partner — to something that’s both naughty and nice. After all, is there any better gift than a really good orgasm? Whether you’re looking to spice things up under the mistletoe or just indulge in a solo sleigh ride, Hong Kong has plenty of options to heat up those chilly winter nights. From sleek vibrators and couples’ toys to luxurious lubricants and playful accessories, we’ve rounded up the best sex and pleasure toys to add some extra sparkle to your season!

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LELO — Sila Clitoral Vibrator

This subtle toy is a great choice for those aren’t looking for anything too intense or who haven’t used pleasure toys before. The super soft silicone, wide mouth (made to perfectly fit against your body!), discreet sound and customisable vibration make it extremely gentle to use while still taking you to great heights. There are eight settings, from pulsations to consistent vibration, and it’s fully waterproof!

Available in-store or online from Sally’s Toy  

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Good Head — Pineapple Blowjob Set

Here us out, because this one’s not just a gag gift. If you’re the kind of girl that dreads going down, this flavoured set might just take some of the pressure off. The three-inch stroker is fleshy, pineapple scented and has multiple textures, so you can focus on the tip while it does the rest of the work for you! It also comes with a pineapple scented lubricant, making the whole experience a little more beachy-keen.

Available online from Adam & Eve. 

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Womanizer — Blend Rabbit Vibrator

Womanizer vibrators are known for using something called Pleasure Air Technology, which essentially provides all the pleasure you could want without any direct contact (hence, no accidental numbness!). This rabbit-style Blend toy offers dual G-spot and clitoral stimulation with eight different intensity levels, plus three different vibration styles.

Available online from Lexy

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Nawaya — Pink Shibari Jute Rope

There’s no time like the present to indulge the fantasies you’ve had for years. Whether you’re a seasoned veteran or just curious, try out this pink-tinted Shibari rope to match the marks it’s sure to leave behind! The high-grade hemp rope is specially used for tight binding, as the fibres are smoother than traditional hemp — and seriously, we can’t get over the colour.

Available in-store online from HKTV Mall or Sally’s Toys

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Lovense — Lush 2 Egg Vibrator

Long-distance pleasure, anyone? Whether you’re across the room from your partner or in a different city, this remote app-controlled toy allows you to have it all! The second model of the widely popular and perfectly curved wearable vibrator boasts all of the features of the first, but offers improved connectivity and has the button moved to the end of its antenna, so you can have fun inside and outside of the bedroom.

Available online from TakeToys.

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UPKO — Snowflake Nipple Clamps

Feeling extra festive? These might not be suitable for your office’s Secret Santa, but they’re sure to delight behind closed doors! Surprise your partner with these super fun and kitschy clamps, which provide just enough stimulation without being full-on torturous (unless that’s your thing, of course!).

Available in-store or online from Sally’s Toy.

Satisfyer — Double Ball-R Dildo

If you’ve never tried a weighted dildo, let us be the first to introduce you. The two weighted balls on this model give multifaceted sensation while providing the pleasant pressure associated with penetration (there’s also a slightly wavy surface for added pleasure!). Our favourite part is that you can attach it to a strap, so it’s perfect for the girls, the gays and the enbys.

Available online from PleasurePoint.

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The thrill of meeting someone new can be overwhelming — you both want to leave a good impression while feeling comfortable enough to be yourself. Choose somewhere lively enough to drown out awkward silences and provide an ideal backdrop for getting to know to each other. Restaurants and bars remain the classic choices but consider hikes, islands and indoor activities to mix things up. Hong Kong has no shortage of options to make first dates fun! Here we’ve sorted out ideas based on the experience you’re looking for – bookmark this page, we’re sure it’ll be just as useful for the second, third and nth date!

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Casual First Date Ideas In Hong Kong

Honestly, we have the most fun on casual dates — the easy-going nature will put you both at ease. Why not plan a day-time date, and speaking of planning, these casual dates don’t require that much of it!

• While a sit-down picnic may be a bit much for a first date, a stroll along the promenade could be a more casual substitute (this was actually a first date for one of our Editors!)
• Go for a hike, you can keep it either easy or shaded unless the idea is for the date to literally take your breath away
• Explore a museum together, better still if it’s new to both of you
• Go bowling to keep your date right up your alley
• Chill at the beach and grab dinner by the seaside

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Romantic First Date Ideas In Hong Kong

Of course, if you want to sweep your date off their feet right on the first date, by all means do so!

• Book a table for two at the most romantic restaurants in Hong Kong, perhaps fine dining if you’re feeling extra fancy
• Keep it old school at a roller-skating rink or ice-skating (oh so filmy!)
• Catch some live music and dance the night away or escape to a hidden speakeasy
• Cook up a storm and order in your favourite wine for an at-home date
• Check out the Flower Market and stop by cute cafes along the way

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Adventurous First Date Ideas In Hong Kong

As if the adrenaline rush from the first date itself isn’t enough, throw in something adventurous and maybe the butterflies in your stomach will ease up!

• Go island hopping in Sai Kung or catch the pink dolphins at Tai O
• Try out an indoor sport like laser tag. Crossfire Arena has a bunch of ideas to choose from
• Seek out Hong Kong’s hidden waterfalls that are worth the trek
• Spend the day at Ocean Park that’s equal parts thrilling and chill
• Venture out to Hong Kong’s abandoned slash “haunted” zones if you dare!

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Cute And Cosy First Date Ideas In Hong Kong

Think of this as a mix of casual and romantic first date with underrated activities thrown in for good measure!

• Grab breakfast on a weekend, or opt for brunch if you want some free-flow to help with the nerves!
• Try your hand a creative class together, be it pottery or art jamming
• Spend the afternoon at a cat cafe (but make sure your date isn’t allergic or scared first!) 
• Go strawberry picking at a farm in The New Territories
• Head to a bookstore and recommend your favourites (only for bookworms obviously) 

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Although sex toys and vibrators have become more widely accepted and are now more accessible than ever, it can be overwhelming (even a little intimidating) to choose from the many different shapes, sizes and types of pleasure products out there. If you want a clearer idea of what you’re buying (remember, no returns!), we’d suggest making your way to sex shops in Hong Kong where the shopkeepers can introduce you to a range of products to see what best suits you. Read on for our pick of beginner-friendly sex toys to add to your cart (and bedroom!).

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Lovense Nora Rabbit Vibrator – G-spot vibrator with Bluetooth

Good for: Long-distance lovers

Waterproof and easy to clean, Lovense’s app-controlled (you can also control the vibrator using the buttons on the handle) rabbit vibrator includes a rotating head, optimised shaft and a vibrating arm — offering the best G-spot stimulation (plus, you can independently control each part). The app is easy to use and control, and you can leave it in the hands of a trusted partner and get steamy! This vibrator also works wonders for couples doing long-distance as your partner can still control your vibrator even from a different city (or country or continent!).

Available at TakeToys (various locations across Hong Kong), or buy online. 

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Womanizer Starlet 3 – Compact-sized clitoral stimulator

Good for: Bringing along during travel and quickies!

Do not underestimate this palm-sized product. This reasonably priced, suction vibrator from Womanizer is the go-to sex toy for many beginners and regular users alike. Using Pleasure Air Technology you can expect gentle (well, depends on which level you’re keeping it at!) and indirect clitoris stimulation. There are only two buttons — to add and decrease intensity levels so you can easily skip past the user manual for this one! And it’s 100% waterproof making it great for a quickie in the shower (for days when you really need it).

Available at Waddy Store, (Womanizer does not directly ship to Hong Kong). 

LELO Gigi 2 – Whisper-quiet G-Spot vibrator

Good for: Intense solo sessions

Easy to use and maximise pleasure. Coming in four gorgeous shades, this G-spot vibrator is made of phthalate-free silicone and feels super smooth and soft (almost like the real deal!). Great for external stimulation and insertion, the LELO Gigi 2 is waterproof and can last up to four hours after you charge it for two hours. It comes with an ultra-quiet vibration as well for undisturbed pleasure.

Available at Sally’s Toy (various locations across Hong Kong), or buy online.

Fun Factory VOLTA – Great for nipple orgasms

Good for: Nipple and clitoral stimulation as well as the shaft — a great option for couples!

Nipple stimulation is indeed underrated but when done right, you can feel waves of pleasure and orgasm from nipple play. This sex toy from Fun Factory can do just that with its deep, rumbling vibration that comes in six levels and six patterns. The VOLTA’s tips flutter against the clit and labia as well, making this sex toy a versatile pick (plenty of room to play around!). Plus, it’s also suitable for men (place the tip on either side of the shaft)!

Available at Wanta, 2/F, 28 Russell Street, Causeway Bay, Hong Kong, or order directly from Fun Factory. 

We-Vibe Chorus – Intuitive orgasms, solo or in pairs

Good for: Mutual intense arousal with a partner

Take foreplay and masturbation to the peak of pleasure with the Chorus, a hands-free vibrator recommended by Sally Coco, perfect for toe-curling satisfaction (did you see that curved design?). This model is as intelligent as it is intuitive, it can be worn during sex, controlled from anywhere through the We-Connect app and you can even vibe to music with the Beat mode. Its best feature is probably the squeeze remote — it’s what it sounds like, the tighter you squeeze, the stronger the vibration gets, tuning into your body’s most natural rhythms. Need we say more?

Available at Sally’s Toy, (We-Vibe does not directly ship to Hong Kong)

Smile Makers The Firefighter – Clit vibrator with broad stimulation

Good for: Quickies with a deep stimulation (with multiple orgasms!)

The Firefighter redefines external play and explosive orgasms with its broad stimulation and intense massage on the clitoral glans. The flame-shaped vibrator is designed this way to maximise pleasure and spread its waves around your labia, meaning more shivers down your spine! Made using premium silicone sourced from Japan, it feels ultra soft and smooth and is 100% body-safe, cruelty free and vegan (plus, it’s waterproof). You’ll be surprised to know it only costs $399!

Available at Watsons throughout Hong Kong or shop online at Smile Makers. 

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Editor’s Note: “Sex Toys And Vibrators For Beginners” was published in May 2022 and was most recently updated in August 2024 by Team Sassy.

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It’s common to set health and wellness goals, which can include hitting the gym, eating healthy, taking up a meditation practice or getting more sleep. We set these goals because they help us feel happier, healthier and get us closer to fulfilling our potential physically and mentally. But how many of your goals relate to your sexual wellness?

Sex is an often overlooked aspect of health and wellness due to the shame and taboo that surrounds the topic. However, it’s a natural, healthy and important part of who we are. Read on to find out why prioritising your sexual wellness is important, plus how to get started…

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Why Does Sexual Wellness Matter?

Studies have shown that sex – both solo and partnered – provides a myriad of health and wellness benefits. Physical benefits include improved sleep and a stronger immunity system, among other heart, hormonal and cognitive benefits.

That famous “after-sex glow” is caused by the release of feel-good hormones that uplifts our moods and eases stress and anxiety. Sex is also said to connect us to our life force on an energetic level, and can boost our creativity, self-esteem and confidence. Between partners, good sex is a form of intimacy and is positively correlated with relationship satisfaction.

Overall, sexual wellness is a key way to boost your general health and vitality.

Make Self-Pleasure A Habit

You don’t need a partner in order to reap the benefits of sexual wellness. Masturbation is a great way to connect with yourself, and it’s an empowering feeling to know that your body is capable of experiencing pleasure, regardless of your relationship status.

Try broadening your definition of self-pleasure to include sensual rituals. You can try dancing naked in your bedroom, or putting your hand on each of your body parts and giving them love; or even massaging your body with a fragrant oil after a shower.

Remember, self-pleasure is a practice. It isn’t always about orgasms (even though they can feel great!); it’s about embracing all forms of pleasure, and doing things that get you out of your head so you can be more fully present to what feels good in your body.

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Strengthen Your Pelvic Floor

The pelvic floor is a group of muscles that is found at the base of your pelvis. Everyone can benefit from doing regular exercises to strengthen the pelvic floor, also known as Kegels. Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles can help with urinary incontinence, increase sensations during sex and lead to stronger orgasms. For women in particular, a strong pelvic floor contributes to better sexual arousal and increased lubrication; while in men, the benefits include ejaculatory control and stronger erections.

To get started with Kegels, try to stop yourself mid-stream the next time you pee and locate the muscles that are contracting. Those are the muscles you’ll use in your Kegels. To do one Kegel repetition, tighten the pelvic floor muscles and lift up, holding the contraction for five seconds; follow with an exhale and full release of the muscles for five seconds.

For beginners, a set of 30 Kegels a day would take a couple of minutes and be a good place to start. You can eventually work your way up to doing sets three times a day – ideally morning, afternoon and night. Or whenever you have a boring meeting in the office!

Learn New Sex Skills

Did you know that sex is a skill, and it’s not something that we are born naturally good at? We have Hollywood to blame for these romantic notions that somehow sex is always meant to be spontaneous, effortless and natural.

In reality, sex is something that takes time, effort and commitment to become good at. Just like learning a language or taking up a sport. Because most of us have had a limited sex education, we are often left to figure out how to get better at sex by trial and error. This is where seeking out the services of a sex coach can come in handy to fill those gaps. Or maybe you could try listening to a sex-positive podcast like Better in Bed and Shameless Sex, reading a book or attending a workshop on sex.

When we make the effort to pick up new sexual skills and knowledge – such as sexual pleasure techniques, sex toys, breathwork, sexual anatomy, communication, intimacy and relationship skills – it improves our sexual wellness and we become more comfortable and confident with our sexuality.

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Be Aware Of Your STI Status

STIs (sexually transmitted infections) have a profound impact on sexual and reproductive health worldwide. They are incredibly common, yet many people ignore this aspect of their health. It’s a good idea to get yourself tested at least once a year or more depending on your level of sexual activity. This way, you always have a good idea of your STI status, which allows you to be as healthy as you can be, whilst also keeping your partner(s) safe.

Most STIs can be completely cured with modern medication, and the ones that can’t be cured can be effectively managed and minimised to the point where they won’t cause any serious health problems. Prioritising your sexual health and wellness also means making sure that you’re taking adequate precautions to prevent STIs and having honest, upfront conversations with partners, ideally before you engage in any sexual activity.

Talk About Sex

Sex is often an awkward and embarrassing to talk about – most of us have never been shown how to have a conversation on the topic in a meaningful and constructive way. However, a great sex and love life relies on effective communication. The more we talk about sex, the better our experience of sex is likely to be. After all, the more clearly you can express what you like and need to your lover(s), the more they are able to pleasure you – and vice versa!

The more you make sex a regular, ongoing topic of conversation in your relationship, the easier it will be to bring up if and when issues come up in your sex life. If it still feels too intimidating to talk to a partner about sex, try confiding in a close friend first and building your comfort level from there.

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Make Sexual Wellness Your Priority

Cultivating health and wellness has become a big priority, particularly over the last decade or so. And making sexual wellness a priority is even more of a recent occurrence, but it’s a step in the right direction. By making sexual wellness a priority in your life, you’re likely to have better and more sex, and be a lot happier and healthier too. 

Ultimately, if you’re starting out with sexual wellness, begin with asking yourself what sexual wellness means to you. Once you’ve defined that, then you can start to create your own habits and rituals that feel good for you.

Celebrate Your Body

Embrace and celebrate your body by focusing on what it can do rather than how it looks. Appreciate its strength, flexibility, and the pleasure it can bring. By valuing what your body can accomplish and the sensations it provides, you’ll develop a healthier, more loving relationship with yourself. This positive shift in perspective not only boosts your self-esteem but also enhances your sexual confidence and enjoyment, making you feel more empowered and connected in your intimate moments.

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Stay Hydrated And Eat Well

Proper hydration and a nutritious diet are essential for your overall well-being, including your sexual health. Drinking plenty of water keeps your body running smoothly, while a balanced diet rich in vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants boosts your energy and stamina. Including foods that promote good blood circulation and hormone balance can improve your sexual wellness, helping you feel more vibrant and ready to enjoy intimate moments.

Editor’s Note: “5 Ways To Get Started On Your Sexual Wellness Journey” was originally published in January 2022 and most recently updated in June 2024 by Catherine Pun. With thanks to Sara for her contribution. 

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When it comes to onscreen romance, some movies are content to simply make your heart flutter with a picture-perfect fairy tale. But the truly great love stories are the ones that challenge your perceptions of relationships and the human experience. In our list of the best romance movies guaranteed to make you ugly-cry, we’ve curated the cinematic gems that transcend the surface-level trappings of “happily ever after”. These are the films that will have you questioning the very nature of love while simultaneously being swept away by its inimitable power. So grab the tissues and get ready to have your heart shattered – and ultimately put back together again – by the most thought-provoking romance flicks cinema has to offer.

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In The Mood For Love – A cinematic masterpiece about forbidden romance

Prepare to be mesmerised by Wong Kar-wai’s achingly beautiful masterpiece, In The Mood For Love – considered one of the best romance movies ever made. This intoxicating drama set in 1960s Hong Kong will shatter your heart into a million pieces with its tragic tale of forbidden love. Tony Leung and Maggie Cheung are pure perfection as the neighbours who form a bond after discovering their respective spouses are having an affair. Every frame drips with exquisite cinematography, vibrant colors and stylised visuals. From Cheung’s figure-hugging cheongsams to the crackling tension, it’s a sensory overload of romantic longing.

Watch the trailer here

Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind – A film with captivating performances

Also widely regarded as one of the best romance movies ever, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is a whimsical yet devastating exploration of love, loss, and the desire to erase the past. When Joel (Jim Carrey, in a career-best performance) undergoes a procedure to wipe his ex-girlfriend Clementine (played by Kate Winslet) from his memory, he soon realises that the pain of heartbreak is linked to the joy of their shared memories. As the procedure unfolds, we’re swept up in the bittersweet dance of their relationship, from the initial spark to the slow unraveling. Director Michel Gondry’s inventive visuals elevate the film’s premise, creating a dreamlike landscape that mirrors the fragility of the human mind.

Watch the trailer here

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Past Lives – One of the best indie romance films

Get ready to have your heart completely shattered by Past Lives – the melancholic romance that will make you question every relationship decision you’ve ever made. Writer-director Celine Song takes you on an emotional exploration of love’s road not travelled when childhood sweethearts Nora and Hae Sung reconnect years later in NYC. The insane chemistry between Greta Lee and Teo Yoo is absolutely electric, making you ache for them to finally give in to their lingering feelings. But the tragic complication is that Nora is already married to another man, forcing her to grapple with the reality of choosing between her present life and the “what if” of her romantic past. With its tender moments, haunting score, and lingering question of whether true love is worth upending everything for, this beautifully crafted indie will completely demolish you.

Watch the trailer here

La La Land – A modern musical masterpiece

If your heart can handle the sweet, soul-stirring pain, then prepare to be swept away by the cinematic magic of La La Land. Director Damien Chazelle’s bittersweet ode to the City of Angels is a triumph of old-Hollywood charm and modern-day romanticism, following the star-crossed love story of struggling artist Mia (Emma Stone, radiant as ever) and jazz pianist Seb (a swoon-worthy Ryan Gosling). As the two pursue their creative passions in the sun-dappled landscape of Los Angeles, their connection ignites with a passion that seems to defy the harsh realities of chasing one’s dreams. But Chazelle isn’t interested in tidy happily-ever-afters – instead, he crafts a heartrending tale of how sometimes, the very things that draw us together can also tear us apart.

Watch the trailer here

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Call Me By Your Name – A tender ode to the force of first love

Topping virtually every “best romance movies” list since its 2017 release, Call Me By Your Name is an intoxicating exploration of first love that will leave you utterly dissolved. Director Luca Guadagnino brilliantly captures the euphoria and agonizing heartbreak of teenage Elio’s (an incredible Timothée Chalamet) all-consuming affair with his father’s grad student Oliver (Armie Hammer) against the dreamiest Italian backdrop. From the pair’s electrifying sexual tension to the heartbreakingly intimate moments they share, this sensual masterpiece lays bare the intense passion and profound impact of first love. Get ready to be a melted puddle as you witness their romance blossom amid the continental heat, only to have your heart shattered into pieces by the gut-punch of an ending.

Watch the trailer here

Her – Explores themes of intimacy and isolation

In this stirring tale of modern love, Joaquin Phoenix captivates as Theodore, a lonely, recently divorced man who finds solace in an unlikely paramour – his advanced artificial intelligence operating system, Samantha, voiced by Scarlett Johansson. Director Spike Jonze crafts a near-future world, all warm hues and retro-futuristic design, that serves as the backdrop for this moving exploration of the human need for connection. As Theodore and Samantha’s bond deepens, you’ll find yourself swept up in the vulnerability and poignancy of their unconventional relationship. Jonze’s script balances whimsy and heartache with an assured touch, delivering a love story that’s as thought-provoking as it is emotional. And the fact that this is where leading man Phoenix met his real-life wife, Rooney Mara, only adds an extra layer of transcendent romance to this unique modern love story.

Watch the trailer here

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Hello, Love, Goodbye – Cross-cultural romance set in Hong Kong

Another heart-wrenching romance that hits close to home, Hello, Love, Goodbye deserves a spot on any “best romance movies” list. This Filipino film from director Cathy Garcia-Molina pulls back the curtain on the harsh realities faced by overseas workers through the eyes of Joy (Kathryn Bernardo), a determined domestic helper, and Ethan (Alden Richards), a struggling bartender – both based in Hong Kong. As their love story blossoms against the city’s gritty backdrop, you’ll find yourself deeply invested in their impossible choice: pursue their dreams abroad at the expense of being away from family, or return home to loved ones but leave their ambitions behind? With raw performances that tug at the heartstrings and an authentic look at the sacrifices made by OFWs, this cross-cultural romance packs a massive emotional punch.

Watch the trailer here

Up – A portrayal of lasting love among the best animated romance films

In just 10 minutes, Up manages to weave an entire lifetime of romance between Carl and Ellie, using nothing more than wordless montage. We watch them fall head-over-heels, build a life together, and face the heartbreak of unfulfilled dreams – all without a single spoken line of dialogue. But it’s in these quiet moments that the depth of their bond truly shines, a testament to the universality of love’s joys and sorrows. By the time the elderly, grief-stricken Carl embarks on an adventure, you’ll be a sobbing mess, mourning the loss of his soulmate even as you’re inspired by his resilience. Up may be an animated film, but its depiction of the lifelong love between two people is as real and relatable as they come.

Watch the trailer here

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When it comes to love, the stars can totally unlock the secrets of your heart. Our horoscope compatibility guide will give you the cosmic intel to analyse your bond with that special someone. We’ll break down the elements that shape each sign and decode the ruling planets so you can handle relationships like a pro astrologer. But the real fun part? We’re getting into the 6 most compatible pairings that seem practically destined by the universe. From opposites attracting to cosmic soulmates, we’ve got the deets on which signs have undeniable celestial chemistry.

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Horoscope Compatibility: The 6 Most Harmonious Matches

Horoscope Compatibility: Elements

Astrologers say the secret to finding your perfect cosmic match lies in the elements – those fundamental forces of nature that shape our personalities and love languages. Checking out each zodiac sign’s elements is one of the easiest ways to unlock horoscope compatibility.

The four celestial elements – fire, water, earth, and air – each rule over distinct traits that can mesh effortlessly for some pairs…or combust in spectacular fashion for others! Whether you’re a fiery fire sign, an emotional water sign, a whimsical air sign or a nurturing earthy soul, understanding your element is crucial for manifesting that dream romance. So let’s dive into reading those elemental vibes, shall we?

• Fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) are known for their passionate nature and wild spirits that ignite romances with their fiery energy. These zodiac signs bring the heat, but like an uncontrolled flame, they can go from sizzling to scorched earth in a flash if their fire isn’t fuelled regularly. That’s where air signs like Geminis, Libras, and Aquarians come in. These matches fan the flames of fire signs with their fresh inspiration and intellectual spark. Their adventurous spirit and stimulating conversations keep the fire signs’ desires burning brightly.
• Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn) offer the grounded and down-to-earth foundation that any partnership needs to truly thrive, as these nurturing lovers value stability and seek security in their connections. However, the deep sensibilities of water signs like Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces can shake up an earth sign’s familiar grooves, but by remaining open to the tidal flow of water signs, their sensitivity can help earth signs blossom and grow.
• Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces) are deeply connected to their emotions and possess strong intuition. Water signs find the greatest compatibility with other water signs, as they understand and resonate with each other’s emotional depths. Additionally, water signs harmonise well with earth signs, who provide the nurturing foundation that allows a water sign’s sensitivity to safely blossom.
• And air signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius) are like the winds, always blowing in new ideas and perspectives into any relationship. Air signs vibe best with fellow air signs, sparking off each other’s free-flowing, non-committal energy. They also pair well with fire signs, as the air continually fuels the flames of creativity. Though heads up – an air sign’s restless spirit and flaky ways can torch even the strongest bond if paired with a sign that demands constant attention.

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Horoscope Compatibility: Planets

If you’re ready to take your relationship intel to the next cosmic level, it’s time to dig deeper than just your zodiac signs (sun signs). Your sun sign may show your core essence, but your full birth chart is the map to your complete celestial DNA. Hit up astro-charts.com, plug in your exact birth details, and unlock the secrets of your planetary profile. From there, you can start comparing placements with your S.O. to see your true compatibility. If your chart qualities and elements sync up, you’re likely a harmonious match made in the heavens. But if the signs clash big time, that’s where issues can arise. Here are the key planets to analyse:

• Your Moon sign governs your emotional world, spilling the tea on how you connect on a heart level and nurture your inner circle. When it comes to love, Moon sign chemistry can be make-or-break for finding a partner who just gets you on a soul level. If your Moon signs sync up, it creates an intuitive understanding and safe space to bare your true feelings.
• Your natal Venus sign is akin to your astrological eros, determining the types of partners who ignite your passions. Understanding your love language allows you to decode who truly lights up your heart’s deepest yearnings and invites the perfect kind of ravishing into your boudoir.
• When it’s time to take action and pursue your desires, the planet Mars becomes your cosmic ally. This celestial warrior governs your energy, drive and sexual expression, ultimately revealing what or who lights your fire in life.
• If you’re seeking a love that stands the test of time, it’s time to focus on the influence of Saturn. While not as passionate as Venus or Mars, Saturn holds the key to building relationships that endure. Your Saturn sign unveils the valuable lessons you need to learn in love, from establishing healthy boundaries to putting in the necessary effort for a deep and meaningful connection.

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Horoscope Compatibility: The 6 Most Harmonious Matches

As mentioned above, horoscope compatibility is way more intricate than just your sun sign – but if you’re in the flirtatious first few dates and don’t have their full birth deets yet, check if you and your crush fall into one of these harmonious pairings. While the full scoop requires a complete natal chart reading, these six zodiac duos have an inherent chemistry that could kickstart some serious sparks.

Leo (22 July–21 August) & Libra (22 September–21 October)

When a Leo and Libra lock eyes from across the room, it’s practically love at first sight – these two were cosmically made for each other! Leos crave attention, and no sign flatters and woos quite like the charming Libra. Together, they’ll bask in the spotlight, going on glamorous dates and dressing to the nines, soaking up all the admiring looks. Swoon! Behind closed doors, things only get steamier as Leo’s theatrics meet Libra’s graceful moves. Just watch out for the occasional diva duel when they both demand the starring role!

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Taurus (19 April–19 May) & Scorpio (22 October–20 November)

Taurus and Scorpio? Now that’s a recipe for some serious sparks. As a Venus-ruled sign, Taurus digs Scorpio’s sensual side and passion, while the mystic water sign is all about the Bull’s steady nature and security. These two share a taste for pleasure, so expect wine-and-dine dates straight out of a romance novel. Though it may take some time to peel back each other’s layers, this pair soon settles into total relationship bliss. And with both signs pushing each other to be their best selves in and out of the bedroom, fights are rare once they click.

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Virgo (22 August–21 September) & Pisces (19 February–19 March)

At first glance, Virgo and Pisces seem like total opposites – but that’s exactly why they make such a great match! Down-to-earth Virgo brings much-needed structure and stability to dreamy Pisces’ world, helping give some shape to all those creative ideas floating around in the Fish’s mind. And Pisces’ emotional depth and empathy can draw out Virgo’s sensitive side, getting the usually analytical Virgin to tap into their feelings. While their contrasting natures may lead to the occasional communication hiccup, these two really vibe on their shared desire to help and understand one another. With Virgo’s natural teaching skills and Pisces’ endless devotion, this odd couple has the makings of a harmonious lifelong bond.

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Gemini (20 May–19 June) & Sagittarius (21 November–20 December)

When carefree Gemini crosses paths with adventurous Sagittarius, it’s like the universe just handed them a license for pure mayhem! Both these signs thrive on spontaneity – Gemini’s many personalities keep things fresh while Sag’s eternal quest for new experiences never gets dull. Get ready for random 3am chats that spark cross-country road trips, surprise skydiving adventures to feed their adrenaline addiction, and late-night convos revealing unexpected dimensions. But heads up for potential ghosting games when commitment phobia hits and one vamooses. The key is finding new ways to fulfil each other’s passions and keep the spark alive. If they can mix it up while fueling their need for adventure, these cosmic thrill-seekers could totally go the distance!

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Cancer (20 June–21 July) & Capricorn (21 December–19 January)

On paper, the intuitive Cancer and logical Capricorn might seem like an unlikely match. But when these two come together, it creates the perfect yin and yang balance of flowing emotion and solid structure. Cancer’s healing vibes find grounding in Cap’s wisdom, as the Crab feels safe to open up with their reliable partner. And Capricorn finds inspiration in Cancer’s expressiveness, learning to get in touch with their own feelings. Though it may take effort to navigate each other’s ‘love languages’ – with Cancer wanting sentimental gestures and Cap preferring acts of duty – this pairing is built to last.

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Aries (20 March–18 April) & Aquarius (20 January–18 February)

This daring duo is always down to try new things, whether hitting up unexplored spots or getting experimental between the sheets. Their shared zest for life creates mad chemistry that keeps the sparks crackling, even when some pairs start to fizzle out. Both these independent signs value their alone time, so they don’t crowd each other. But at the end of the day, they reconnect to swap stories from their separate adventures and vibe on their mutual weirdness.

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With so much going on in the lead up to Christmas and New Year’s, it’s all too easy to lose sight of the important things and not take time out of our everyday routines to appreciate our other halves (or besties!). So, with that in mind, we’ve decided to implement the 12 Dates Of Christmas to make sure we fit in some quality couple time at what is usually a very busy stretch of the year. We’ve come up with some suggestions to get you started, but the idea is that these 12 Dates Of Christmas don’t cost the earth. So, we’ve tried to make it as cheap and cheerful as possible (with a bit of imagination, you could even plan all your activities for free!). Keep scrolling for more…

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1. Pine-ing For You

There’s no better way to kick off the festive season than by choosing a Christmas tree. It’s not always possible to squish the six-foot pine of your dreams into your Hong Kong flat, so you may need to temper your expectations. If you don’t know where to start looking, head to The Flower Market for a browse. You’ll find all sizes of real and artificial trees there (and may even pick up some decorations while you’re at it). Once you’ve bought your tree, bring it back and decorate it together while enjoying a glass or two of mulled wine or hot chocolate. Don’t forget to have some Christmas tunes playing in the background to really get you in the mood. Everybody now… “It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas!”

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2. Spice Things Up

We love a challenge here at Sassy HQ and think that dates with a competitive edge are always a winner. That’s why we will be introducing a “Ready, Steady, Cook” as one of our 12 Dates Of Christmas. You and your partner decide which one of you will be on main course duty and which one will be in charge of dessert. If you are taking on the main, your partner will pick out three ingredients that you need to include in your dish, and then you will pick out three ingredients that your partner needs to include in their dessert (or vice versa). You can either let each other know in advance what ingredients you have chosen (so you can make sure you have everything else you need to complete your meal in stock), or you can make it harder by only revealing them just before you have to start cooking. Make it more challenging by setting a time limit. Either way, at the end of it you should both get to sit down and enjoy a candlelit two-course, home-cooked dinner. And if all goes wrong, there’s always takeaway!

Sassy Tip: Check out our recipes for inspiration!

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3. Happy Trails

Plan a hike up Mount High West on a clear day so you reach its peak in time for sunset. There are plenty of steps to climb en route, but for your efforts, you’ll be rewarded with amazing 360-degree views of the city below. It’s around a 3km hike from Kennedy Town, which takes you through Lung Fu Shan Country Park. You might want to pack a craft beer to sip on at the top as you take in the sights and catch your breath. Don’t forget to bring your phone or a camera as you’ll definitely want to take a couple of selfies. To mix things up on the hike down, head back via Lugard Road and the Morning Trail. If you’re too tired or if you lingered over that beer a little too long and it’s getting dark, you can always catch a taxi at The Peak to deposit you back into Central.

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4. Catch A Flick

We couldn’t have a 12 Dates Of Christmas list without including a Christmas movie night. You can either both pick one festive-themed movie each and do a back-to-back viewing session or toss a coin to see which one of you gets to pick the film. We can never pass up “Love Actually” at this time of year, but the choice is yours (depending on what you can find on Netflix!). All you need to complete your night is some popcorn and drinks. Then just cuddle up and wait for the feel-good factor to kick in!

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5. Long Walks On The Promenade

If, like us, you can’t help but marvel at Hong Kong’s skyline every time you see it lit up, then this is a date that will definitely appeal. Pack a picnic (a stop at M&S should help up your drink and snack game!) and take yourself off to the Art Park in West Kowloon Cultural District. Make sure you time your trip so that you arrive before dark and can eat your goodies as the sun goes down. All you need to do is pick a spot on the grass by the Waterfront Promenade, throw down a blanket and enjoy the views looking over Victoria Harbour to Hong Kong Island.

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6. Music To My Ears

If you’re looking for a daytime date idea and are a fan of vinyl records, then take a trip on the MTR and while away some hours popping in and out of the record shops in Shek Kip Mei, Sham Shui Po and Prince Edward. It’s sure to spark up some conversations about your musical tastes and you may even end up making some purchases or finding a hidden gem! You’ll also find plenty of coffee shops around to call into when you need a pitstop.

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7. A Glamping Adventure

Staycations are so 2020. This Christmas, why not try your hand at glamping instead? Encompassing all the fun of sleeping under the stars but with a comfortable bed instead of a sleeping bag, it’s the ideal middle ground. Head here for our ultimate guide to glamping in Hong Kong.

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8. One-On-One

Our 12 Dates Of Christmas definitely includes a games day. Head to the top floor of the Dragon Centre in Sham Shui Po and prepare to be transported back to the past. They have a great selection of Western and Asian arcade games to play and, in our experience, it’s never too busy. Or if you prefer board games to arcade games, make your way to Wheat and Wood in Kennedy Town. There’s an amazing collection of board games to choose from and you can order drinks and snacks while you’re there! Or if you’ve got a good game collection at home, a cosy night in works too!

9. A Quick Romantic Getaway

Take a day trip together. There’s no shortage of islands you can visit here in Hong Kong and one of our favourites is Cheung Chau. Waste no time on the way there by taking the fast ferry from Pier 5 in Central, which takes around 35 minutes. Spend the day pottering around and take a leisurely hike up to North Lookout Pavilion for some good views. If you’d rather see the island on two wheels, you can easily hire a bike there. Make sure you refuel while you’re there at one of the many Cantonese restaurants, where seafood is a speciality. Take the slow ferry back at sundown (which takes around an hour) and pay a bit extra for the deluxe class, which gives you access upstairs and to the outside deck!

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10. All Bubbly Inside

Another way to soak up the sights of the city (and a great chilled date idea) is to plan a night of beers or bubble tea by the bay! Make a pit stop at one of the city’s best craft beer vendors to pick up some brews or one of our favourite bubble tea spots for some boba and bring it with you. Then decide which waterfront to hit up for a stroll and a spot of people watching. You’ll likely find us at either Central Ferry Piers, Quarry Bay Park or the waterfront at Kennedy Town, Sai Wan Ho or TST.

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11. To The Moon And Back

For a spot of culture, we recommend a museum date. Head to M+ for a spot of culture, and don’t miss the opportunity to take plenty of photos for the ‘Gram while you’re there — the architecture is stunning! We’re also big fans of the Hong Kong Space Museum. Bring out your inner geek by having a go at “Gravity Surfing” together and pose for a photo inside a Re-Entry Capsule.

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12. Cheers To Us!

For the last date, you may as well push the boat out and treat yourselves to a fancy cocktail or mocktail at one of the city’s rooftop bars. Get dressed up for the occasion and make a night of it. To add a surprise element, why not pick each other’s cocktails? You may find you end up sampling more than one or two tipples on the menu.

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Editor’s Note: “The 12 Dates Of Christmas: Festive Dating Inspo” was most recently updated in December, 2023 by Team Sassy.

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